MIA

My plan was not to write a post until I'd moved - but as you've guessed that hasn't happened .... yet. I'm trying to stay positive and doing ok most of the time - fingers crossed one more week. 

Hopefully next time I update I will have some good news.

On a positive I had a lovely day in Lytham with the monkeys and mum - we made the most of the sunshine.

Then headed through Blackpool (did not stop!) and had an hour in Bispham it was lovely and we even managed to find the 2p machines.

Sunshine please stay

I'm happy to say that Sunday was a much happier day in our house. We headed off to the park with our ginormous picnic blanket, bats and balls and some brunch supplies. I managed to sit down for 5 minutes - which is better than nothing.

We came home for lunch and I "encouraged" everyone to have a little siesta - I played the it's too hot outside card and it worked a treat - all of us had a lovely guilt free nap.

My mum came round and I did a bit of gardening and we had tea outside - it was a lovely end to the weekend.

It's St Swithins day today and the weather today dictates the next 40 days - it would be brilliant if summer really did stay.

I wish every day was like today

This is how every Saturday should be. Swimming lessons, then off to a party, then for the monkeys to play for hours with their friends (in and out of the paddling pool) whilst us adults got to sit down and catch up, home for tea in the garden and after a very quick shower two exhausted monkeys who were asleep as soon as their heads touched the pillows.

Now I'm enjoying a cup of tea (the only disaster is there is no wine in the house) the place is tidy and I'll be going to bed at a respectable time to catch up on some much need sleep.

I'm editing this post - the above makes us sound like we've had an idyllic day and we have from 10:45am when we exited the house to go swimming. However from being woken by a certain person at 5:30am til going out it felt like hours (which thinking about it it was!!) the monkeys were loud and argumentative and I wished that a second adult would magically appear and either give me a 10 minute break or make me a brew. Being a single mummy is the hardest thing I've ever done but the reason I started this blog was to remember the good parts of our lives (if I focused on the first 5 hours of the day it wouldn't be great) but the last 8 hours were brilliant. 

Perfect night

With the sun shining and the days lasting longer I don't always feel that we make the most of it. Sometimes making plans in advance makes us get up and do things - and even better if we can rope our friends in too. Tonight we picked Sue up after work and headed to Burrs to feed the ducks and play on the park. It was lovely to enjoy the countryside and I was surprised how quiet it was. Then we went out for tea - the pub had a lovely big garden with a bouncy castle and play area - there were just a handful of families and us, the monkeys ran about and made new friends (which was lovely to watch) Sue and I enjoyed a very well deserved glass of wine. It was a perfect night. Blue monkey was that exhausted by all the fun he fell asleep on the way up the stairs.

Lots to do

My posts haven't been as frequent recently but I've been so busy with the monkeys, work and starting to get things sorted for the move - because if everything goes to plan in just over 2 weeks - so I've started packing, and decluttering. I feel really worried that something is going to go wrong but I really hope 3rd time lucky.